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Making sense of it all……….

My friend Toni sent me this – it always makes me smile. When I look back at all of the different people who have come into my life and gone out, what has been written below begins to make sense. 

You never know when your guardian angel will be there for you.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.  
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person….  

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.   

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

SUKYISM’s……everyone should have one person in life who knows them inside out

From time to time, I will add what I call a Sukyism – a belief I personally hold that I feel to share with others. So here is my first.

My Brother-in-Law once said to me everyone needs at least one person who knows them inside out. Someone they can go to when they need help where they won’t be judged, just comforted and consoled.

I agree with him 100%. We all need someone to share our happiness and the hard times with. I do believe a problem shared is a problem halved.

I am lucky to have 2 of these who know everything about me – warts an’ all! I call them my pillars. Together we are a tripod and can cope with anything – no matter what. I never feel alone because I have these 2 beautiful beings who I swear know me at a soul level.

Who are yours? Do they know what they mean to you? If not tell them. The three of us often tell each other that we love each other. At least if something happens to any of us, none of us will be left wondering.

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